Life is sweet. I sit listening to a still house as my baby
naps and admire the budding spring and hints of summer that is May in
Charlotte.
Counting my blessings
has never been so much at the forefront of my mind.
James Robert has my heart completely; there aren’t words to
tell how much being his Momma has made my life. How special and significant
Mother’s Day will be this year for our family! Not only because it is my first,
but also because having a baby has provided a clearer lens with which to view
my Mother and the other Mother’s in my life.
Daily, I gain perspective on how selfless, giving and transforming it is be a Mother. I'm so blessed to have my Mom as an example. Needing her guidance, I recently asked her what advice she would give me as a new Mom and
I received the following words of wisdom:
1.
Trust your
instincts. No one knows James Robert better than you. You are his
advocate.
2.
Kiss, hug and tell
James Robert you love him every day! Savor every moment possible because time
goes by too fast.
3.
Instill faith. Help
James Robert develop a loving relationship with God.
4.
Teach manners. That
gift will last forever.
5.
Read to James
Robert. It provides comfort and entertainment. Also let your
imagination flow and make up stories. You will cherish the memories.
6.
Instill a love for
music. It's a great outlet and expression of feelings. Plus, it's been an
important element in our family history.
7.
Be consistent.
That's not always easy, but make sure you and Mat are on the same page.
8.
Slow down and
embrace it all. Make time to laugh. Experience fun times as a family and
you'll treasure the memories.
9.
Be a good listener
and play with James Robert. Make spending time with James Robert your priority.
The dishes and laundry can wait!
10.
Take a deep breath
and exhale slowly. Repeat as many times as necessary. Being a mom is tough, but
it's endlessly rewarding.
Perhaps you've asked your Mom the same question? If not, I highly
recommend the exercise! I'll cherish this advice.
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| James Robert with his Grandma's |
Both Mat and I grew up
with unconditionally loving, supportive and inspiring women. I can only hope to
provide that type of example for James Robert.
Wishing all the Momma's out there the very happiest of Mother's Days. xoxo
